Rejection is just background noise.

 Rejection is just background noise.


As a Cochlear Implant user, I’ve faced rejections that had nothing to do with my skills. Sometimes, it felt like decisions were made before the interview even began.

For a while, it stung. I kept asking myself:
“Why am I being judged for something I didn’t choose?”

But then I realized something powerful: life never rejected me.

When silence tried to define me, I refused.
I finished school, earned my degree, handled research projects, internships, and presentations. Every step demanded resilience. Every achievement reminded me that effort speaks louder than noise.

That’s why I no longer see rejection as a wall.
It’s just background noise.
Every “no” feels like static in my implant: temporary, annoying, but never permanent.

The truth is my “yes” is still out there, waiting. And just like my soundprocessor’s battery pack, every time I recharge myself with belief, hard work, and consistency, I return stronger than before.


This journey taught me an important lesson:
✅ I don’t need to prove I can hear.
✅ I need to prove I can achieve.
✅ The right people will listen without asking me to shout.

So whether you’re a CI user, a student, a job seeker, or a professional facing rejections remember this: you’ve already survived harder things. Rejection isn’t the end. It’s just noise.

💙 What about you? Has rejection ever made you stronger?
👉 Or has a challenge in your life turned into your biggest motivation?

Your story might be exactly what someone else needs today.


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